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How old were you on your first couples swing experience? 1 2
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Anon321 439
On 3/26/2024 at 7:37 PM, ThickHips said:Thank you for your replies, some really helpful ones and insightful. I guess initially breaching the topic is a challenge for me, we roleplay and fantasise about fucking in front of someone, and even being joined, but when we're not having sex we don't have those discussions, and it becomes a bit of a dichotomy where the division between "sex talk" and "real talk," makes me worry about his reaction/feelings if I say I want him to purely watch: although reading some of the replies about boundaries being pushed etc, very erotic.
My GF is not too different from you in that she loves the loss of control and having boundaries pushed, and yes, even sometimes "lines" crossed. It's consensual non-consent, and it's nothing to be ashamed of. I don't think there is anything wrong with that if that is what you're into. If you want to be dominated and taken control of by another man then that is fine and you can express that to your SO. However, that doesn't mean you should expect him to give up control or be humiliated as part of the process. It's possible that he might like that but he might not, and trying to surprise him with it would not be a good idea.
Is it giving up control and being dominated and humiliated yourself that is a turn on or does your fantasy require your SO to be dominated, controlled, and humiliated? The former is easier to have a discussion about. That's not to say he would be open to the latter but it adds another level to the conversation.
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8 hours ago, Starting late said:
A small update. Thanks to the prevailing opinion that it's not a big deal, I went with it. We exchanged panties (and bras too, which I thought was a little odd since she is smaller than me) But I wore the panties out to a benefit dinner in San Francisco on Tuesday night. I'll be honest - I really, really thought it was weird, and didn't feel very comfortable with the idea. But....the night ended with me standing in front of our hotel room window, curtains open, masturbating with her panties on. Blame it on the vodka sodas, the giving spirit of the fundraiser, or whatever you like, I ended up enjoying it, and plan on returning them...unwashed.
Thanks all for allowing me to share. When I think about my life one year ago compared to now, wow, what a crazy transition!
So, now that you worn the bra and panties, what are your feelings about doing it. Would you do it again? Did you get any special feelings from it ? As far as the bra, size would have been a concern for me. Do you ever wonder what those panties went thru after you returned them?
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hunterdonNJcpl 1,048
One of our current playmates has a vasectomy and when he cums there really isn't much there at all but that's the closest I've seen to an ejaculate-free orgasm.
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NC_Seniors 491
I do it all the time … but it’s due to modern pharmaceuticals. I’m on a med named Silodosin to treat BPH (enlarging prostate). One of the possible side effects — and I have it — is called retrograde ejaculation. Rather than being ejaculated out, the semen runs back into the bladder and you just wind up getting rid of it when you pee. So unlike those men who wish they could hold it back, I actually wish I could still “shoot”.
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20 hours ago, Billygoat said:Even the best of relationships has a great amount of difficulty “baring their soul” conversation with their SO/lover/best friend/soulmate.
For David and me, it was pretty simple. He said, didn't ask, "You're still sleeping with Red." I thought this was our breakup. Then he said, "I want you to know that I'm ok with it." Not long after, David said we should marry. We did and Red came along for the ride.
Our relationships weren't planned in advance, but worked out. That's why I believe it's better to go into a relationship as ENM, not trying to pry open a monogamous one.
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483 To Swallow or Not to Swallow (when swapping)?
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1. What acts are reserved for "intimate" partners?
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